PYTHON

send dm discord py

channel = await member.create_dm()
await channel.send("hi this is a dear message")

send dm discord py

await user.send("hi this is a dear message")

dm user discord.py

@client.command()
async def dm(ctx, user: discord.User, *, reason = None)
 await ctx.send(f"I'm messaging {user.mention}!")
 await user.send({reason})

send dm to user discord.py

# sends a DM to the user

@client.event
async def on_message(message):
  msg = message.content

  if msg.startswith('Hello!'):
    await message.author.send("Well hello there!")